Holy Damn That's a Lot of Money!

Ed and I visited the wedding planner today. Her services were included in the hall we booked and essentially she talked up the vendors associated with the hall. We went over all the services we would need (flowers, dj, etc.) and the eventual cost. I swear my heart stopped when it was all added up. We are getting an amazing deal on the hall but otherwise, weddings are damn expensive! I want a house! This is just one day. What about the rest of our lives? What about the two bedroom/two bath I dream of? Can I still have this wedding and still have that one day?